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We can provide short term assessments of need, and counselling for adoptive families who are experiencing problems. Our helpline can also help you with phone counselling and support. We can provide short term counselling and support for adopted adults seeking to find their birth relatives. We will also act as intermediaries when you find relatives and facilitate introductions if necessary Many adoptees tell us that finding birth relatives raises all sorts of issues. Our short term counselling can help you make sense of the intense feelings and support you in a pace of introductions that suits you. Many young adopted people wonder about their birth relatives and want to know more about them. This is particularly common when things are not going well at home or if you are not getting on with someone in your adoptive family. The temptation is to think that one's birth family would be better and could perhaps rescue you from difficult encounters. Sadly this is usually not the case and sometimes searching for or meeting birth relatives can often cause more problems than it solves. If you are having problems with your parents or brothers or sisters it is usually better to deal with that and not complicate things further with another set of parents. However, young people who are adopted tell us that there are many difficult things about being adopted. Sometimes people at school or in the community ask you difficult questions or sometimes school projects bring up things about being adopted. you may prefer not to think about. If you live in one of our subscribing areas and have problems that are connected to being adopted it may help to talk to a counsellor from SWAN or to ring our HELPLINE. Sometimes young people are afraid it will upset their parents to talk about their birth relatives or to ask for information. A SWAN counsellor can help with that. Sometimes, young people have difficulty in School related to their adoption - we can also help here. Do contact us if you want to talk about something related to your adoption.
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We hope soon to have a pack for Birth Parents and for social workers working with Birth Parents. When your birth child is 25 we can support you in searching for that child and act as an intermediary when we find them. We can help you to understand your feelings or think through what you can in a letter or in a prospective contact. * We can unfortunately only help if you live in one of our subscribing areas or if the adoption took place there. If you are a Birth Parent SWAN can provide independent free counselling support to birth relatives who are loosing their children to adoption or who are contesting adoption. We cannot stop the adoption - you need to work with your lawyer to explore that - but we can help you to look at your feelings and put you into contact with other people who have experienced this grief. We can also help you write letters if you have letterbox contact. Rejection Work: Rejection network was formed for that reason, to support those, be they adopted or birth relatives or others who carry that grief and have lost connection with relatives. It holds meetings and has a lively website. |
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