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Many things about adoption have changed in recent years, and many adopters feel that they would like more support with being an adoptive parent.

Older children and children with disabilities, as well as healthy babies, now join new families by adoption.

Attitudes to trans-racial adoption have changed. Many more trans-racial adoptions occur and there is a continual need for access to up to date information and research. This can lead to adopters needing more information and support.
Many adoptions are now made with indirect contact being maintained with birth relatives. We can provide advice and support with managing direct or letterbox contact.

We can offer:

  • A Helpline: (telephone and email)

    Our Helpline can act as an advice line where you can talk through things, which are worrying you.
  • Short term Counselling:

    We can support you in getting your voice heard, in planning for your child, or negotiating special help in school.

    We can also help you with letter writing or any other contact arrangements

    Short term counselling can offer you a chance to talk about your feelings, and try and make sense of your situation.
  • Information

    We can help you with Information about the adoption process and your rights
  • Group Support

    Most local authorities run adoption support groups. We can put you in touch with your local support group.
  • Library with books and articles

    SWAN has an excellent booklist that we can send you. Books can also been ordered.

    Some of the books are in our library and we can lend them to you.

Click here to find out more about services that SWAN can offer.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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We have recently been piloting an independent specialist consultative Adoption Support Clinic for adopters. This has been organised in conjunction with Joy Hasler from CATCH-point who has specialist skills in Creative Attachment Therapies for adopted children.

Evaluation of the pilot project shows that the clinic is much valued by adopters. It enables them to receive very specialised, speedy, responsive advice on dealing with exceptionally difficult behaviours, which sometimes threaten the children’s schooling or in some cases their home. They can also receive follow up through SWAN’s specialist workers, who are also in a position to develop specialist work with a child that supports the placement.

Many adopters have found themselves dealing with children who have behaviour problems, which stem from early pre-adoption abuse and neglect. When they seek help they find that there are insufficient professionals who have the specialist knowledge of adoption and of early attachment disorders. SWAN is in a position to rectify this through the provision of this clinic and subsequent follow up by specialist SWAN workers. We also aim to develop training for professionals in these specialist areas.

We would like to extend this service to provide specialist clinics with Joy and other noted professionals on a monthly basis throughout the southwest region

Some would hope that this kind of support should be available through statutory services but sadly it is not. Adopters have found that the CAMHS service frequently cannot provide the service that they require.

The statutory system is unresponsive to meeting the crisis needs of adopters, who are often struggling to help their new children deal with the aftermath of horrendous abuse.

Independent, specialist therapeutic advice can help give adopters more understanding of the issues and support them in their task as therapeutic parents. This in turn provides the best therapy for the children.

Children who are adopted after a lengthy experience of being in care, are amongst the most damaged children in our society. They come into care as a result of abuse, neglect or parental mental health difficulties or drug misuse. Attachment disorders are very common amongst this group of children, and there is much research detailing the difficulties experienced by these children and their carers, and ways of helping adopters.

If these disorders go untreated, adoptive placements can break down and the children can then go on to become a drain on community resources as they struggle to make relationships and find their place in the world. Unfortunately the specialist knowledge is rarely available and SWAN has made it possible for these skills to be more widely accessed.

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In the future we would like to extend this consultative service so that we could offer a specialist clinic for children with ADHD.


We would also like to be able provide other specialist clinics involving family therapists and other specialist professionals.

 

Case Study


Maggie and her adopted parents Jane and Kevin
Maggie is aged nine and has a younger sister Annie who is seven. Maggie was placed for adoption when she was four with her younger sister, after a very unsettled childhood. She never bonded with her natural mother who suffered from drug addiction and mental health difficulties. Maggie was particularly traumatised by the domestic violence that existed in the family home during the first eighteen months of her life.

She was received into care several times in the first two years of her life and this culminated in the Local Authority taking care proceedings when she was two and a half. She was finally placed for adoption when she was four and a half, and her sister was two and a half. Annie has settled well with her adopters but Maggie has become progressively more difficult, needing to be in control of everything and creating difficulties in the home and at school. She draws her mother into arguments and refuses to do as she is told, but always does what her father asks, causing her parents to split in their management of her behaviour. This is the classic behaviour of a child with early attachment problems. She has few friends and some of her difficulties spill into school creating problems with her peers.

Few professional have been trained in the management of attachment disorders, and adopters need specialist help to develop strategies for managing the behaviours, and preventing breakdown of placements. Research is showing that changes happen in the brain when attachment does not happen properly in the early years and this then shows up later in childhood, requiring different parenting strategies from adopters.

The Adoption Support Project in association with CATCHpoint is providing training for adopters and professionals in attachment disorders. Through the adoption support clinic we are able to provide a prompt consultation response, which can assist adopters in developing strategies in managing difficult behaviours that occur in children with attachment disorders.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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